I’m no longer working at the GnB I used to work at on Thursdays. The recession has affected quite a few academies, I suppose.
If you go back through months of entries, you can see me hinting at various changes of things to come. I figured my services to the GnB in question would be changed at some point.
This means I will be able to spend more time teaching my regular kids at Wins, as well as Mrs. Cho’s other academy, Mecca. That’s something I’ve been pining for for a long time.
That being said, I feel like I am hanging. I didn’t expect to not see the GnB students on Thursdays when I got back here. They were expecting me to come back, and I don’t know how to approach the issue. It seems fitting to send a text massage to the numbers I know and say “goodbye”, but will they know the full-story concerning my absence? Or will they view it as me abandoning them?
I hope the kids who remain there get a good English education, because at this point that’s all that matters.
-Speaking of getting a good English education…
Yesterday, my university student, Natalie, told me her father wanted to send her to study in Canada when she was a young kid. She would have stayed for many years, but her father decided it would be unsafe to have a kid in a foreign country for such a long time.
I agreed with that assessment, saying that it would probably be difficult for the kid to be away from their families for such a long time. I saw no problem with older teens going abroad, but someone younger than 16?
Tonight, I met a girl who had done exactly that. She went to live in Vancouver with her aunt’s family when she was six, all that way to the age of ten. Apparently she really enjoyed her time there. She had been watching the videos I shot while in Canada, and memorised details from them. She was talking to me about the Toronto Maple Leafs, the Rockie Mountains, and other things I couldn’t believe were coming out of a Korean mouth.
I have friends who studied in America and Canada for an extended period of time, but they couldn’t erase the inherent “Korean”ness of their body language, speaking patterns, and other things. This fourteen year old girl (13 in Canada) could have been a Canadian teen. She didn’t have an accent. The vocabulary was standard English, without any incorrect grammar or awkward phrasing.
It was a pretty stunning display, and I couldn’t hold back a few grins. But what was the price for this fluency?
When she arrived in Korea, four years ago, she couldn’t speak a word of Korean, aside from “Hello”. I asked if her parents could speak English, but she said they couldn’t. She had to communicate through body language. I figured that would screw up a kid pretty hard.
Yet, she is now officially bilingual, with Korean her primary language of expression. She was pretty upbeat, funny, and just positive overall. Being in Canada has made her quite a bit more mature compared to her peers, because I couldn’t believe she was the same age as Melanie, Betty et al. Her level of maturity made me constantly think she was at least sixteen years old. My brain kept juggling different trains of thoughts stemming from this young kid.
Even though she’s half my age (nearly), I have a lot to learn from her. My attempts to incorporate myself into Korean society are a whimper of a shadow compared to what she has achieved. I wish she were a student at Wins, rather than Mecca, so the other kids could see her (I think jealously might set in though).
We had a great hour together, freely discussing different topics. I made her laugh so hard a few times, her sides were sore. I apologised to her, as she clutched her sides through peals of laughter.
She definitely seems to be a success story if there ever was one. Even so, I would still be extremely wary of sending such a young child off to a foreign land for four years (and only seeing them once!). Maybe it should be decided on a per-individual basis, but it still seems like one heck of a gamble.
Sometimes gambles do pay off though, if tonight is any indication.
